The Modern Siren

Now, this might seem to be a strange question, but consider all of the things that your partner does, day after day, week after week, etc…
“Is it rather a bit too routine to be considered “social” or even something close to how things were when you were first dating (?) and after the love you each have was first declared to each other and the physical feelings of love was first exchanged?

Love does not die, it get’s shuffled under chores and obligations. Love hibernates. Then the daily/weekly routine comes into play and our life becomes dull, monotonous, even robotic.

You can protect your relationship (and keep love alive) by adding small spontaneous moments into your day.

A love note stuffed into a pocket or briefcase professing your love is a great way to start the spark again.

It can be so hard to get away from home life that when you need some one-on-one time special planning is needed and carefully plan the spontaneous moment, then follow through with what you want to do.

Don’t be afraid of an unexpected and even a refusal to participate the first couple of times you do this; it’s hard to break through the well-maintained boring lifestyle.

Do not be turned off of trying a second, third and even tenth time to get your partner’s attention, it will come, be patient. (Just don’t be hurt or offended and you’ll do well and receive the real response you want.)

Good luck!

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Tags: first love, hurt, keeping love alive, living with a robot, love hibernates, offended, rori raye

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