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My friend Michael Webb contacted me recently to let me
know that he was going to raise money to help a local
non-profit buy their own building by putting all his popular
titles together and slashing the price for a one-week sale.

Michael’s got a generous heart. He also volunteers to help
run summer camp programs for disadvantaged youth.

This collection contains more than two dozen of the top
rated lovemaking and intimacy books.

He has discounted it about 85% and the sale ends on

September 12th at midnight.

Visit the Mega-Sale page here

Michael has never put his products on sale before like this
and I doubt he ever will again. He is doing it this one time for
this special cause.

Be well,
Robert Lee

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Do you have a fantasy lover?

Having a fantasy lover can be very fulfilling, allowing yourself to get sensual and excited and if you take the extra time to understand what makes your fantasy lover so good at what they do you’ll find that you have those same deeply sensual feelings available to share with the lover you have, or will have, in real life.

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There’s only one important thing in our lives and it’s love. If you feel you’re losing love (or you feel you’ve lost the love from your partner) then I invite you to watch Rori Raye’s video here (free registration required).

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Now, this might seem to be a strange question, but consider all of the things that your partner does, day after day, week after week, etc…
“Is it rather a bit too routine to be considered “social” or even something close to how things were when you were first dating (?) and after the love you each have was first declared to each other and the physical feelings of love was first exchanged?

Love does not die, it get’s shuffled under chores and obligations. Love hibernates. Then the daily/weekly routine comes into play and our life becomes dull, monotonous, even robotic.

You can protect your relationship (and keep love alive) by adding small spontaneous moments into your day.

A love note stuffed into a pocket or briefcase professing your love is a great way to start the spark again.

It can be so hard to get away from home life that when you need some one-on-one time special planning is needed and carefully plan the spontaneous moment, then follow through with what you want to do.

Don’t be afraid of an unexpected and even a refusal to participate the first couple of times you do this; it’s hard to break through the well-maintained boring lifestyle.

Do not be turned off of trying a second, third and even tenth time to get your partner’s attention, it will come, be patient. (Just don’t be hurt or offended and you’ll do well and receive the real response you want.)

Good luck!

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It’s easy to feel down about our relationships. “I’m not being loved enough” or “My marriage is boring” are both common themes that run through our lives at various times.

But when this happens it signals that you have surrendered control of your relationship to some unseen and depressive force.

Getting back control, and keeping it, doesn’t happen with a few spoken words or a simple loving gesture, controlling your relationship for the betterment of the both of you is a major step and a life changing force. It really is.

First you need to define why you feel your relationship is in the gutter. What has happened, or what is not happening, that makes you feel this way?

Is this something you can work at alone or do you need the support of your partner to make positive change in your relationship?

Now, be careful how you answer the above question. It’s easy to push the responsibility of a good relationship onto your partner but often the answer relies on you making small changes that change the entirety of your relationship and move the both of you into a renewed level of love and respect.

Only you have the control of how you approach your relationship and how you enrich both of your lives. Use that control to make the change needed.

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Those who want help save marriage from ending in divorce need to PULL it together.

It is a hard thing to watch a marriage that was once so precious and important fall apart. It’s heart breaking to sit by as the two of you start going your separate ways. If you don’t want that to happen then do something about it. Pull it together to help save marriage.

Chill out:
Take a moment to catch your breath and step back from the situation. Not necessarily take a break from it but to just calm down. It is easy for things to get over-heated. Take a moment to catch your breath and give it a moment to cool off. When you were young you were probably told to count to 10 when you got angry so that you could give yourself a chance to get yourself under control.

The same principle applies here. Before you do anything else, take a breath. The next time something is said to you that makes you mad, calm down, get a hold of yourself and then let go of your anger. Only then can you truly learn how to communicate and take the next step to help save marriage.

Understand what is happening:
While you are “chilling out” and taking a moment to breathe, take a look at what is happening. This is where you try and look at the big picture and then look at things from other perspectives. From where you are standing at the moment things may look pretty bad. Try to look at it from other perspectives and it might not be as bad as you thought.

Try looking at it from an outsiders perspective and from the one you love. From those other perspectives you might find out why things have been getting out of control. There may be a relatively simple solution to help save marriage.

Laugh at yourselves:
This doesn’t mean to make light of the situation but it does mean don’t take yourselves so seriously. It is easy to make mountains out of mole hills. Things snowball out of control but when you are able to see what it was that actually made the snowball you may end up laughing at it.

It can be hilarious to find out how a minuscule thing can turn into something so huge when it didn’t have to. It can be hilarious if you are willing to let it be. Many times when people go through a rough time they will say, “Sometime we are going to look back at this and laugh!” Why wait?

Look for ways to improve:
Once you have had a chance to step back and catch your breath and then been able to get some perspective on the situation, you can move on. When you have realized that at it’s root, this situation or problems that you have been struggling with is really small and manageable you can get things on track.

The next thing that you need to do is commit yourself to finding a way to improve. If you are responsible for the little things that get blown out of proportion, then try stopping it. If you have learned that you overreact, then stop it. Improve the way you handle situations and everything else may just fall into place to help save marriage.

To help save marriage, PULL together and bring back what belongs together…the two of you.

This topic and more is discussed in the Magic of Making Up ebook. Learn the right and wrong things to do to get your ex back here

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