The Modern Siren

Have you ever tried to get into a man’s heart through being interested in the things he likes?

Whether job related or of personal interests, when you share this with a man, and it is the only aspect of a relationship you start, you are on a dead-end road to love.

Have you ever shared interests like this with a man and after a while wondered why the “love” you thought you had has fizzled out?

Sharing interests with a man is not enough to make him fall in love with you.

You must open the romantic door of his heart if you are going to have an emotionally charged and romantic relationship with a man.

Lets’ say the guy you like really likes sports, he’s a big football fan, always rooting for his team of choice. And you use this as a way to get his attention and make him fall in loive with you.

Then after a while, no matter how much time you spend with him the love you envision just doesn’t happen.

Why?

Because you have created a relationship on something that is outside of your control.

You started losing as soon as you made that first cheer beside him.

A woman cannot find love with a man through a man’s logical path of sharing interests because all you do is create a setting of non-romantic gestures.
If you are to have a man love you, this road is only open when the romance you feel for him is a stepping stone to a stronger and more intimate relationship.

Now, I’m not talking about having sex, about basing your possible relationship upon a physical connection, I’m talkking about moving into a romantic place that allows you and your chosen to experience life together, apart from common interests that are outside of your control, so that love together can truly be revealed.

Share what is in your heart, not what is in his mind and you will be on the road to true love.