Life happens is a hurry, faster and faster. More never-ending distractions that pull your partner away. And when something happens, reactions are swift and sometimes hurtful.
The fear response happens in 1/10 of a second, but has lasting effects for the day, week or longer from the actions you took in that 10-second window when you responded to your fear.
Those moments will guide your relationship into greater closeness, or more distance, depending on what your response actions were.
Are you shutting down intimacy, or are you allowing these moments to create a deeper connection? Are you setting yourself up for years of misunderstandings?
When your partner shares a truth with you, is your response from the heart or purely a reaction that you later may regret?
Choosing the right words, with an authentic response and in an honest way, even if the words are hard to say, can change the way your relationship moves forward.
In those moments, your future happiness is decided.
“10 Second Miracle” will help you get there, in those moments of stress, surprise, and unexpected openness.