Rori Raye, the dating coach from “Have the Relationship You Want,” empowers women to connect deeply with themselves and communicate authentically to build meaningful relationships.
Here is an example personal ad inspired by her approach, along with a step-by-step questionnaire to help a woman write her own ad.
Sample Personal Ad:
“Playful, Passionate, and Ready for the Real Thing”
Hi there! I’m a kind-hearted woman who loves connecting on a deep level while still finding the joy in life’s little moments. Whether it’s walking through a sun-dappled park, savoring a home-cooked meal with friends, or discovering new books and music, I thrive on experiences that bring meaning and connection.
I value honesty, emotional warmth, and a great sense of humor—because I believe laughter is one of the best ways to bond. While I’m fiercely independent, I also cherish the balance of leaning into a relationship where both of us can be our authentic selves.
If you’re someone who’s ready to truly show up, communicate openly, and share life’s adventures, I’d love to hear from you.
End of Sample Personal Ad
Step-by-Step Questionnaire:
1. Reflect on your Essence:
– What are your top three qualities that make you, *you*? (e.g., adventurous, empathetic, creative)
– How do you connect with others on a meaningful level?
– What kind of energy or vibe do you want to bring into your relationships?
2. Highlight what you Love:
– What are your favorite activities that light you up inside?
– How do you spend your ideal day? What hobbies or passions do you enjoy?
– What kinds of experiences bring you the most joy?
3. Define your Values:
– What qualities do you cherish most in a partner? (e.g., integrity, kindness, humor)
– What do you feel makes a relationship strong and fulfilling?
4. Share your Relationship Vision:
– What kind of partnership are you looking for? (e.g., fun and light-hearted, deep and committed)
– How do you want to feel in a relationship? (e.g., safe, loved, excited)
5. Add a Personal Touch:
– What’s a unique or quirky thing about you that someone would love to know?
– Is there a favorite quote or philosophy you live by that captures your outlook on life?
6. Keep it Inviting:
– What’s your tone and style? Are you playful, romantic, sincere, or a mix?
– End with a question or statement that invites someone to reach out, like: “What do you think of cozy Sunday mornings with coffee and conversation?”
Now you know how to write a winning personal ad that will get attention and responses.
