Trust is one of the most important ingredients for a healthy and happy relationship.
But what if you’re not sure where you stand with your partner? What if you feel insecure, anxious, or confused about his feelings for you? How can you trust him when you don’t know if he’s committed to you?
In this blog post, I will share some tips and insights from Coach Rori Raye, a relationship expert and author of the best-selling book “Have The Relationship You Want”. Coach Rori has helped thousands of women create the love life of their dreams by teaching them how to connect with their feminine energy, express their feelings, and inspire their men to fall in love and stay in love.
Here are some of the key points from her articles that can help you build trust in your partner and your relationship:
Stop chasing him and start leaning back
One of the biggest mistakes that women make in relationships is chasing their men. This means texting him flirtatious messages, calling to get together, asking how he feels, or trying to get him to commit. This may seem like a way to show your interest and affection, but it actually pushes him away and makes him feel pressured.
Coach Rori says that chasing him is a sign of masculine energy, which is the energy of doing, pursuing, and achieving. Masculine energy is great for your career, but not for your love life. When you chase him, you take away his natural role as the pursuer and the provider. You also make him feel like he doesn’t have to work for your love, which lowers his attraction and respect for you.
Instead of chasing him, Coach Rori suggests that you lean back and let him come to you. Leaning back means being in your feminine energy, which is the energy of being, receiving, and feeling. Feminine energy is magnetic and irresistible to men. When you lean back, you create space for him to step up and pursue you. You also show him that you value yourself and that you have a full and happy life without him.
Leaning back doesn’t mean playing games or being cold and distant. It means being warm, open, and authentic, but not needy or clingy. It means letting him initiate contact, make plans, and express his feelings first. It means trusting that he will do these things if he’s truly interested in you.
Express your feelings without expectations or demands
Another way to build trust in your partner is to express your feelings without expectations or demands. This means sharing what’s in your heart without trying to control his response or behavior. It means being vulnerable and honest without being manipulative or needy.
Coach Rori says that expressing your feelings is the best way to connect with your partner and inspire him to fall deeper in love with you. When you express your feelings, you show him who you really are and what you really want. You also invite him to share his feelings with you and understand you better.
Expressing your feelings doesn’t mean complaining, criticizing, or blaming him for anything. It also doesn’t mean asking him for reassurance, validation, or commitment. It means using “I” statements instead of “you” statements. For example, instead of saying “You never call me” or “You don’t care about me”, say “I feel lonely” or “I miss you”. Instead of saying “You should do this” or “You have to do that”, say “I would love it if…” or “I would appreciate it if…”.
Expressing your feelings without expectations or demands means letting go of the outcome and trusting that he will respond in a way that’s best for both of you. It means respecting his free will and his pace. It means giving him the opportunity to show you how he feels about you through his actions.
Romancing yourself and your life
The third tip for building trust in your partner is romancing yourself and your life. This means treating yourself with love, kindness, and respect. It means doing things that make you happy, fulfilled, and alive. It means creating a life that’s rich and meaningful without depending on him for your happiness.
Coach Rori says that romancing yourself and your life is the best way to raise your self-esteem and attract more love into your life. When you romance yourself and your life, you show yourself that you are worthy of love and happiness. You also show him that you are not needy or desperate for his attention or approval.
Romancing yourself and your life doesn’t mean ignoring him or neglecting your relationship. It means finding a balance between spending time with him and spending time on yourself. It means having hobbies, interests, friends, and goals that are independent of him. It means being confident and comfortable in your own skin.
Romancing yourself and your life also means romancing the everyday. It means finding joy and beauty in the small things. It means being grateful for what you have and what you share. It means being playful, fun, and spontaneous. It means making every moment count.
I hope this blog post was helpful for you. If you want to learn more from Coach Rori Raye, you can check out her website and her blog. You can also sign up for her free newsletter and get more tips and advice on how to have the relationship you want. Thank you for reading!
